Thoughts from Parasha Chukas(/Balak)

This week's parsha is full of interesting occurences. One of them is the death of Aharon Hacohen. When klal yisrael hears about his death the pasuk tells else that "Vayivku es Aharon shloshim yom KOL bais yisrael". Interestingly, by the death of Moshe, it says, "Vayivku vnai yisrael es Moshe b'arvos moav shloshim yom" It does not use the word "KOL". This implies that there were perhaps some people that mourned Aharon that did not mourn and cry for Moshe. The fact of the matter is that although both were manhigim their roles were different. Aharon was the peacemaker. As such, he was loved by and therefore mourned by all. The medrash goes into great detail describing the levaya of Aharon. Moshe however was the dayan. He had to pass jugement, therefore one of the two parties was often/occasionally not too pleased with Moshe.
It is interesting to note that at the end of the megilla it tells us that Mordechai was "ratzui lerov echav", he was accepted by MOST of his brothers. This is hard to fathom, he just saved the entire jewish population. My Rav once brought this as a proof. He pointed out that a Rav's job is to pass judgement and give mussar. As a result, he may not be loved by all, but ultimately, that's not his job. As long as he's accepted by most, and he's making a difference, he's doing his job. If he's accepted by all, there might be something lacking, that perhaps there's something that he should be doing differently.