Thursday, February 16, 2006

A Little AFI History

This shabbos marks an anniversary for me. Parshas Yisro was the first shabbos that I spent with my wife's family in their neighborhood and at their shul. You are probably wondering how or why I remember that. The answer is very simple.
At one point over the course of the shabbos, my then, future father-in-law approached me. He was telling me how appropriate it was that Parshas Yisro was the first shabbos that I spent with them. Why? Because in Parshas Yisro, Moshe's father-in-law gives him advice and the Torah tells us, "Vayishma Moshe L'kol Chosno, Vayaas Kol Asher Amar", "And Moshe listened to his father-in-law and did everything that he said. This should be a lesson to you, dear AFI, in father-in-law/son-in-law relationships."
I looked him straight in the eye with a smirk on my face, and responded how I agreed that it truly was an appropriate shabbos for me to be with them. Why? Because shortly after the passuk that my f-i-l quoted, the Torah tells us, "Vayshalach Moshe Es Chosno, Vayelech Lo El Artzo" "And Moshe sent his father-in-law away and he, Yisro, went back to his land. True, Moshe listened to his father-in-law, but that's because in that situation, he gave him good advice. However, immediately afterwards Moshe sent Yisro packing in response to his f-i-l butting into his life. This should be a lesson to you dear future f-i-l, in father-in-law/son-in-law relationships."

16 Comments:

Blogger chaverah said...

What a great answer! Very impressive. Your father-in-law knows who's boss.

February 16, 2006 6:12 PM  
Blogger Pragmatician said...

Very brave of you, but since you were able to take his joke, it's only fair he could take yours as well!

February 17, 2006 5:17 AM  
Blogger FrumGirl said...

Pretty amazing that you knew the chumash well enough to retort so quickly and sharply! Very well put... I hope since then your father in law has learned his place, lol.

February 17, 2006 11:32 AM  
Blogger Mata Hari said...

Just wait until you're a father in law. :)

February 17, 2006 12:06 PM  
Blogger TRW said...

It's very funny, 'cause I just heard that statement (and response) from a father-in-law talking about his discussion with his son-in-law.

But that happened 10 years ago, he said.

February 18, 2006 10:09 PM  
Blogger David_on_the_Lake said...

The only mitzvah that talks about father in law/son in law relationships...is
VeAchalta Shelal Oyvecha...

February 18, 2006 10:11 PM  
Blogger A Frum Idealist said...

chaverah - thanks, but if only it were that easy...

prag - thanks, you would think so, right? Unfortunately, only one can play that game...

frumgirl - thanks for the compliment, as to my f-i-l, I WISH!

mata hari - I don't disagree. It IS a scary thought, but I see myself dealing with my children and my future in-laws differently than he does.

nobody - good point, wait for my next comment, as soon as I have the chance to type it up.

trw - where did you meet my f-i-l?? Just kidding. I didn't get married ten years ago. Besides, I don't see many f-i-ls bragging about that conversation. lol

david - believe it or not, I have heard that line from my f-i-l as well.

eshet - thanks for the compliment.

dm - I get along well with my in-laws, I just don't see eye to eye with them and sometimes that gets very frustrating.

February 19, 2006 11:10 AM  
Blogger FrumGirl said...

DM THAT is your main topic? I thought you were just kidding! Wow, I look at it in a whole new light now.

February 20, 2006 10:25 AM  
Blogger A Frum Idealist said...

nobody - here is my follow-up as promised. There is no question that a mother-in-law is worse than a father-in-law and it's epitomized by a story brought down in the gemara, shabbos 26a.
The gemara is discussing a highly flammable oil and tell a story about a mother-in-law who despised her daughter-in-law and recommended that the d-i-l adorn herself with this oil. After she followed her m-i-l's advice, the m-i-l told her to go and light the lamp filled with that oil. She lit the lamp and the fire leapt out onto her and consumed her.
You don't hear stories like that about fathers-in-law.

February 20, 2006 2:19 PM  
Blogger chaverah said...

DM - WOW for such a humerous "blogsite", what a serious question. I will like to give my opinion on this matter, If you feel you want to leave just because of sexual pleasure it is not worth the pain your family will go through. Every relationship will get old sexually and when it does you will regret that you left everything you have. Marriage is so much more then sex. Dont take the leap if thats the only reason!

February 20, 2006 6:12 PM  
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