The Esoteric Meaning of Numbers - Numerology 103 - Part II (continued)

In my previous post, I didn't get the chance to explain the connection between the three, its essence as described, and the gimmel.
Gimmel is the same as gomeil, one who gives or nurses. Gimmel is actually the letter that represents the female. The nurturer. The "giver". However, it also means to wean, which is the exact opposite of giving. If you understand the Torah definition of giving though, it makes sense. Endless/limitless giving is not a good thing. We see many children who have been given to constantly, often grow up to become extremely spoiled. The true essence of giving is to give as long as it is necessary to give, and then not give any more. There is a point at which to stop.
We also discussed the fact that the first time a word in the torah starts with a specific letter, that word defines the letter. The first word that starts with the letter gimmel is gadol or more acurately hagedolim. The word gadol truly defines the gimmel. The word gadol can be split into two. Gimmel meaning to give, and the remaning two letters are daled and lamed which spell "dal", a poor person. A gadol is one who gives to a poor person, which is exactly how the gemara defines the gimmel, gomeil dalim.
This again, all goes back to balance. Someone who has, giving to someone who doesn't. Understanding that it all comes from Hashem and by giving to someone who is less fortunate we create a balance in the world which is our goal on this earth.
I also found it interesting that in the echad mee yodea, the three is the first time that the answer provided to what the number is, is a human being. The avos. I think that teaches us that the three and the lesson of the three is our essence and what our goal is to achieve.